Thanks, turbodog and Scott-E
I got my new damper over the week end. Old one was definitely blown out and went in the trash. Air moves through the orifice alot easier than oil. I can barely move the shaft of the new one bare handed, but once installed only noticed a slight extra effort to steer. And the good news is it has taken all of the shake out of the handle bars.
Here's a couple of pictures of the first mounting. I'm glad I had the blown out damper to easily move steering back and forth to get the proper mounting position, so it wouldn't bottom out or over stroke the damper. I have another beefier fork clamp coming, so I can use heim joints on both ends to allow for the bit of angle movement when steering lock to lock. Will send updated pictures next weekend.
Went for a couple hour ride yesterday and can't believe how well it handles. Still keep both hands on the bars, but don't need a death grip anymore. I know there's the discussion that the damper is only masking a problem, but until I can find a leading link or raked tree it sure feel like it's been fixed.